Our Favorite Oils for the Bedroom


One of the best things about essential oils is the wide range of uses to influence your life & health …& FUN! The small molecular structure of essential oils give them unbelievable power.
So, here’s the BIG question: Can essential oils enhance your SEX life? YES. YES. And YES.Here are a few favorite singles, blends or combos to try out. Read to the end to see David’s favorite blend for men and my favorite blend for women.
1. Sensation
Made with coriander, ylang ylang, bergamot, jasmine and geranium, Sensation is alluringly fragrant and exotic. If you don’t want to DIY, this is a great one to start using.Spray bedding or pillows to set the mood, or wear as a perfume.
2. Black Pepper and Peppermint Duo
Why this duo? Black Pepper gives a little heat and Peppermint cools things off. The mixture is heavenly when applied to the thighs (3 drops of Black Pepper and 3 drops of Peppermint with 6-8 drops of a carrier oil will definitely heat things up in the bedroom.You can also make your own personal lubricant.
Combine 1 oz of coconut oil, 5 drops  Sensation, 2 drops Black Pepper and 2 drops Peppermint.  wow.The floral scent of Sensation is relaxing while Black Pepper and Peppermint provide a warm/cool sensation. It’s heavenly.And side note:  if you don’t already have coconut oil in your bedroom – DO IT! It works amazingly as a personal lubricant, massage oil, moisturizer and so much more.

3. Joy

Made with bergamot, ylang ylang, lemon, coriander, tangerine, jasmine, Roman chamomile and palmarosa, Joy has a similar scent to Sensation with stronger notes of geranium. It’s incredibly uplifting and helps to boost my mood.

It can be worn as perfume. It smells divine when diffused and is one of my every day favorites!

4. Ylang Ylang


With a faintly sweet floral scent similar to gardenia or plumeria, Ylang Ylang was used to cover the beds of newly married couples on their wedding night. It’s no surprise that blends like Sensation and Joy, which both help to promote romance, contain Ylang Ylang.

 I often wear Ylang Ylang as perfume or diffuse and apply topically (neat or with a little coconut oil) on my thighs, lower abdomen or VitaFlex points on the feet. It’s sweet but with enough floral notes to wear alone.

5. Idaho Blue Spruce

Idaho Blue Spruce is an exclusive oil that is distilled directly from Young Living’s St. Maries farm in Idaho. It has a masculine, evergreen pine scent that smells wonderful. It’s super manly. This remarkable essential oil contains high percentages of alpha-pinene and limonene and has a pleasing and relaxing evergreen aroma. It is part of the Shutran blend for men. It’s found in Believe blend as well as the Transformation blend!Idaho Blue Spruce (5 drops) with Ylang Ylang (3 drops) in 1 oz of coconut oil  makes a wonderful sensual massage oil for men. It can be used as a men’s cologne too. Douse it on your man. You’re welcome.
6. Hong Kuai
Hong Kuai is a tree found in the mountain rainforests of Taiwan. It’s incredibly high in sesquiterpene content, which means Hong Kuai is like getting a boost of liquid confidence.
With its woodsy aroma, it’s perfect for men as a cologne. Here’s a great recipe to increase feelings of romance, perseverance, and confidence for men: Mix 2 drops of Hong Kuai, 1 drop of Ylang Ylang and 1 drop of Blue Spruce.Apply to thighs, neck and VitaFlex points on the feet.
7. Goldenrod
Goldenrod helps to support the circulatory system. As the name suggests, Goldenrod can be used on well… let’s just say it will make a man feel like a M-A-N. 😉 It can be applied to the lower abdomen, ankles, or VitaFlex points on the feet either neat or diluted.David loves this one,
It’s in “his blend” (see # 12)
8. Mister
Mister is a blend of sage, fennel, lavender, myrtle, peppermint, and blue yarrow in a base of sesame seed oil. It can be used as a men’s cologne and used to promote inner balance.Mister pairs well with Idaho Blue Spruce and Ylang Ylang for an intoxicating, arousing massage oilApply to the VitaFlex points on the feet, ankles and lower abdomen.


9. Clary Sage


Clary Sage is the equivalent to Mister (but for women). It has a mild, warm herbal scent that is relaxing and helps to promote inner balance and reduce stress. It has natural phytoestrogens.Combine a few drops of Clary Sage and Ylang Ylang or Sensation with a few drops of coconut oil for a sensual massage oil.Apply to the VitaFlex points onthe feet, ankles and lower abdomen.


10. Lady Sclareol


Lady Sclareol is a blend of rosewood, vetiver, geranium, orange, clary sage, ylang ylang, sandalwood, sage lavender, jasmine and Idaho Tansy. It has a seductive and alluring scent for both men and women.You can apply to the neck and wrists as a perfume. It’s also a nice addition to a warm bath.


11. Sonya’s Blend for women


I believe every person has an intuitiveness when it comes to their health. This is my blend. I love it. Menopause and low libido don’r stand a chance! Try this recipe as a springboard to come up with your own unique blend.Fill 1/2 roller bottle with Cel-Lite magic oil (It contains the following oils: coconut, Grape seed, Grapefruit, Cedarwood, Juniper, Wheat germ, Clary, Sweet Almond).Add  5-8 drops each of the following: Ylang Ylang, Stress Away blend, Lavender, Patchouli, Neroli, Geranium, Motivation blend. Inner Child blend, Jasmine
This blend can be used as a personal, lubricant or applied to inner thighs or lower abdomen.
Side note: the Cel-Lite Magic Blend by itself is an amazing “after bath” moisturizer. I use it instead of lotion. My dry skin LOVES it.


12. David’s blend for men


This is David’s favorite combo. 10 drops of each:Goldenrod (increases circulation), Idaho Blue Spruce (naturally boosts testosterone), Sacred Sandalwood (emotional grounding and stabilizing)

As you can see, his blend is a lot less complicated than mine. LOL


I know this is A LOT of info. Honestly, I have just scratched the surface. There is so much value in the botanical world. We are so very blessed to have access to such amazingly concentrated natural medicinal resources that can support our health. It’s easy to “lose touch” with what we are putting on our bodies. Lotions, creams and perfumes can disrupt hormone balance and who needs that?!?!. I’m such a fan of oils. EVERY area of our life has the potential to expand and get BETTER.

Better sleep. Better health. Better energy. Better immunity. Better vitality. Better clarity. Better emotional stability…

And yes, Better sex. 😉


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